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bajanlady — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 13:52:29 -0000

Rikyrah I am SO sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Allison

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TheRowdyGirl — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 10:37:53 -0000

I thought you would like to know that I posted this beautiful poem on another private social site and here is the response I got:

My son directed me to your post.......and I am so grateful he did. He has heard me quote the first phrase of this poem all his life, as my mother taught it to me when I was a child, and it has been the standard that I have lived by my whole life. Yes, as a little girl and even as an adult, if I am tempted to compromise my actions in any way, I quote this poem to myself, and then am better able to make the right choice. I'm sooooo thrilled to at last read the poem in it's entirety......I never even knew who the poet was, so could never look it up.
I called up my mother, who is now 94, and read it to her. She says she used to know the whole thing, but had forgotten it years ago. Thanks for the memories, and for the opportunity for others to know this wonderful little poem and to perhaps become better people because of its wisdom. Thank you so much for sharing ........

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Nita — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 05:13:25 -0000

I am sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom, Rikyrah. You and your family will be in my and my family's prayers this week. God bless you all.

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Teacher — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 15:07:02 -0000

To Rikyrah & your family, May God keep and comfort you during your time of sorrow. You will never stop missing her, though you will get use to it over time. Keep her photo close by so you can continue to talk to her. Know that, even as we mourn her loss here on earth, the angels are REJOICING! in heaven. She must've been an incredible woman to raise a daughter as awesome as you. Be surrounded by love.

I hug you, Teacher

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GreenLadyHere — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 13:45:13 -0000

AMEN. God comfort you and yours. Keep strong for "Mama"! She is proud of you.
God Bless You.

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SquarePeg — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 13:24:50 -0000

Condolesences on the lost of your precious mother. Her legacy to you is that she prepared you well in regards to your self-identity and place in this world.

Your evident compassion, frankness and love of your people is on display in your blogs to which we are all grateful.

Her memory will live on in you as an example of how you were "raised right."

My sympathies.

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CraigHickman — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 12:54:39 -0000

rikyrah, my heart breaks for you.

Take care of yourself.

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P6 — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 11:35:59 -0000

I wish there was something substantial I could do to help.

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goldenstar — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 00:52:35 -0000

Rikyrah,

Peace and prayers and light to you and your family.

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ubstu34 — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 23:48:18 -0000

So sorry to hear about your loss. May God grant you the strength to get through this tough time.

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scruncher — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 23:16:23 -0000

I am so sorry to hear about your mother's passing. I lost my mother to lung cancer 27 years ago so I know what you've been through. And to lose your mother is a loss forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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heartsandflowers — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 18:54:18 -0000

Wow. May you have comfort in your time of grief. Losing a loved one is never a good experience but with time it gets more manageable. May I suggest speaking to a bereavement counselor to help you transition. Your writing has always been on point that had you not mentioned it, no one would have guessed you were hurting.

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Big Mik — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 18:21:33 -0000

My Lord, I am so sorry to hear that, as a long time lurker that loves reading your thoughts, I send my love and prayers to you and your family.

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akonuche — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 18:03:35 -0000

Oh no! I am so sorry to hear this, rik. Diabetes complications and lung cancer is quite a battle to have fought. She is home now. May your grieving period not last long and may your dear mother rest in eternal peace. You are in my prayers.

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Leila Abu-Saba — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 16:40:12 -0000

Others who are facing cancer - be of faith. I am living with metastatic breast cancer to the liver, lung and spine - 10 months since diagnosis. Every day is a blessing and a gift. Treatment is not easy but living is so sweet. It's natural to have fear in the face of cancer - express your fears - and remember to have faith in God and the natural ability of your body or your loved one's body to heal itself and survive. Love is the answer - love, forgiveness, laughter and prayer.

Also be in communion with nature as much as possible, even if that means sitting in the back yard. Trees, running water, sunshine, physical contact with earth - all of these heal. God works through nature to heal all creatures.

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Leila Abu-Saba — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 16:36:33 -0000

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my father to lung cancer in 2006 - two months after his diagnosis. We never saw it coming - he was virulently anti-smoking all of his 76 years. I know what heartbreak you must be feeling right now.

My prayers are with you.

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Rhondacoca — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 15:10:23 -0000

Wow. I could not imagine how you feel right now.

Ironically, I found out last night that my mother has been diagnosed with colon cancer. I was shocked but then again, it runs in our family. My grandmother died of colon cancer last year. My mother will have to get treatment. I am very scared.

My prayers are with you and your family at this hard time.

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Michelle — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 14:59:01 -0000

I am so sorry to hear about your mother's death, rikyrah.

I honor the reality of your broken heart -- it's your mother and that's a hard loss.

Michelle

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glory — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 14:50:46 -0000

I pray that the peace of the Lord will be with you and your family.

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Honey01 — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 14:43:24 -0000

Rikyah,
I am so sorry for your loss. Please take care.

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nezua — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 14:36:39 -0000

ah. big love, rikyrah. be strong. see you when i do.

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msmartin — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 14:28:55 -0000

rikyrah

There are no words, I share a tear with you. I lost my father at a young age to the swift effects of lung cancer and can imagine your loss. I'll pray for your peace and strength and that of your family.

Know that you add to our experience and are missed when you're not here. I was wondering where you were.

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CPL — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 14:11:59 -0000

Rikyrah, you know I'm praying for you. I know what it's like to send your mother home to glory. ((((BIG HUG)))

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Roxie — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 14:00:34 -0000

Oh, my darling! ((((((HUGS)))))

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Anovelista — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 13:57:31 -0000

Rikyrah,

I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I will say a prayer for you and your family.

Nichelle